What's On
This Month
Here's what's coming up this month across Aotearoa / New Zealand
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Gay Men's Adult Events
Sleaze - Afternoon & Evening
1st Saturday Evening Monthly - 8pm to 3am
2nd Thursday Afternoon Monthly - 11am to 6pm
Menfriends Sauna
427 Tuam Street, Christchurch
Orgy Night - New Years Day
Centurian Sauna
18 Beresford Square,
Auckland Central
First Thursday Monthly
Undies Fetish Day
Centurian Sauna
18 Beresford Square,
Auckland Central
Third Wednesday Monthly
Kiwifist
Saturday, 20 December from 7pm
Fisting event
Lateshift
Sub Level 1
25 Dundonald St,
Eden Terrace
Xmas Day @ Lateshift
Thursday, 25 December 2025
We are open normal hours as always. There will be snack & nibbles too, if you haven't eaten too much already :)
Lateshift
Sub Level 1
25 Dundonald St,
Eden Terrace
On-site Sexual Health Testing
Free testing provided by Body Positive, Burnett Foundation, and Te Whatu Ora / Health NZ
🩺 test'n'treat - HIV & STI testing by Body Positive
Walk in or book an appointment for rapid testing and get same-day STI treatment from our onsite nurse.
Prevention tools available like PrEP, PEP, DoxyPEP, and Mpox vaccinations.
Check website for walk-in clinic hours or to book an appointment.
🩺 HIV/STI Testing by Burnett Foundation
HIV/STI testing (walk-in, appointment, at-home)
Counselling & support for those with or affected by HIV
Check website for locations, walk-in clinic hours, or to make an appointment.
Social Groups & Events
Vinegar Hill Camping
14 December 2025 - 4 January 2026
Rainbow (and allies) community camping (or glamping!) over the Christmas & New Year period with community organised activities.
Putai Ngahere Domain (Vinegar Hill)
184 Cheltenham-Hunterville Road,
Hunterville
Christmas Furry Friday (Auckland)
Friday 19 December 2025
Christmas edition of the monthly social event for Bears and their admirers!
Cafe 39
39 Ponsonby Rd, Ponsonby, Auckland
Body Positive Christmas Lunch
Tuesday 23 Dec 2025 - 12pm
Join us for a festive Christmas lunch at Body Positive House in Auckland. Everyone Welcome
Body Positive House
1/3 Poynton Terrace, Auckland Central
+Social Luncheon (Christchurch)
Third Sunday Monthly, 11.30am - 2pm
Check Event Details for confirmed dates
Monthly social get togethers for people living with HIV. In partnership with Burnett Foundation Aotearoa & Positive Women Inc.
John and Neil’s
Contact via Event Details for details
+Social Thursday Group (Auckland)
First Thursday Monthly, 3.30pm
Check Event Details for confirmed dates
Monthly social get togethers for people living with HIV
Body Positive House
1/3 Poynton Terrace, Auckland Central
+Social Coffee Hour (Auckland)
Second Saturday Monthly, 9.30 - 11.30am
Check Event Details for confirmed dates
Monthly social get togethers for people living with HIV
Little Algiers
551 Karangahape Road, Auckland
+Social Wellington
Third Wednesday Monthly, 5.30 - 7pm
Check Event Details for confirmed dates
Monthly social get togethers for people living with HIV
S&M's Cocktail Bar (Downstairs)
176 Cuba St, Wellington Central
+Social Manawatu
Monthly, check Event Details for confirmed dates
Monthly social get togethers for people living with HIV
Check Event Details for location
+Social Luncheon (Christchurch)
Third Sunday Monthly, 11.30am - 2pm
Check Event Details for confirmed dates
Monthly social get togethers for people living with HIV. In partnership with Burnett Foundation Aotearoa & Positive Women Inc.
John and Neil’s
Contact via Event Details for details
Summer Camp
27 Dec 2025 – 3 Jan 2026
Summer Camp is a unique holiday experience for gay and bisexual men. It is our longest-running event, with men from across the world gathering at Autumn Farm for the festive season. Come and experience friendship, fantasy and fun with your gay brothers. Spend the New Year in a relaxed, clothing-optional, secluded country garden environment.
Autumn Farm
37 Central Takaka Rd,
Tākaka
Gear Up Sunday Sesh
Event by Leather Up
Second Sunday Monthly 3-6pm
Check event details for confirmed dates
An afternoon cafe gathering for guys into leather, rubber, uniforms & other gear as well as our Pups & Handlers. Leather or fetish gear strongly encouraged. No nudity as the venue is public.
Cafe 39
39 Ponsonby Road,
Ponsonby, Auckland
Cigar, Pipe & Whisky Social
Event by Leather Up
First Thursday Monthly, 7-10pm
Check event details for confirmed dates
An evening event for guys into Cigars, Pipes and Whiskey in an outdoor area of Cafe 39.
Cafe 39
39 Ponsonby Road,
Ponsonby, Auckland
Gear Up Thursday
Event by Leather Up
Third Thursday Monthly from 7.30pm
Check event details for confirmed dates
An evening social gathering for guys into leather, rubber, uniforms & other gear as well as our Pups & Handlers. Leather or fetish gear strongly encouraged. No nudity as the venue is public.
Eagle Bar
259 Karangahape Road
Auckland Central
Queers & Beers - Alexandra's Rainbow Social
Event by Queers & Beers NZ
Check event details for confirmed dates
Station Brewing
50 Boundary Rd,
Alexandra
Queers & Beers - Wanaka's Monthly Rainbow Social
Event by Queers & Beers NZ
Third Thursday Monthly from 7.30pm
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Wanaka Brew Bar
80 Ardmore Street, Wānaka
Merch with a Splash of Rainbow
Gear for the gym, for your pup, and more. Click here to get yours!
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